Monday, December 01, 2025
It typically manifests as a woman saying they have a communication problem, but that's not generally the actual problem. What's really going on is she has a lot of emotions of unresolved stuff that she's not willing to admit to herself or to her husband, so she blames the "communication problem" as if it's the beast of burden third person in the marriage. ... Read More
Wednesday, November 26, 2025
What is a man to do when his wife provokes him to anger. When his wife gets to stay home during the day, then when the man comes home, she abandons him to cook dinner, do the dishes, and take care of the kids? When she secretly records their fights, and provokes the husband to anger, all the while portraying herself as the victim?... Read More
Thursday, November 13, 2025
I was 18 when the Columbine Massacre occurred 26 years ago. It shocked me to my core. It shocked everyone. And 26 years later, the school shootings still happen. If it's not bullying, not violent video games, not antidepressants with black box warnings, what is it? Yes, it is true that some of the shooters had some of those possible contributing factors listed above, but those things are correlations, not causes. There are plenty of kids doing or engaging in those various things. What makes these young people want to shoot up schools? What's the X factor? What we have here is a failure to properly identify causes because it would break the last taboo in American culture: the parenting style.... Read More
Tuesday, October 28, 2025
But why did this happen in the first place? Why did a 6 year-old little boy feel stupid to such a degree that it sticks with him 20 or 30 years later? In almost every case, that little boy had a mom who had her own emotional problems to the degree that his emotions and emotional connection and safety was 2nd or 3rd or even lower in the rank of importance to her, so he already felt the vulnerability of lacking that emotional connection and stability. Once that happens, it doesn't take much to wound him to a degree that it sticks with him for decades and remains the driving force behind the addiction.... Read More
Wednesday, September 17, 2025
Black and Red Photocentric Ebook Cover God created you for action and mission, not to be passive. Vegging on Netflix, binging on video games, and doom-scrolling as substitutes for porn...... Read More
Wednesday, September 10, 2025
There is one thing that nearly everyone from podcasters and writers to mental health professionals get completely wrong about porn addiction. Porn addiction is not about sex.... Read More
Wednesday, August 28, 2024
“I need your help,” Steven said. “I just don’t know how to get past this. I try and try and try to quit looking at gay porn and masturbating, and after about two weeks, I fall flat on my face and have to go to confession again. I don’t know what to do.”“Part of the problem is you think your unwanted same-sex attraction and your pornography addiction are one problem. They’re not."... Read More
Tuesday, August 20, 2024
This is where most people get stuck. They blame their younger selves for the pain they suffer today, for having made that unwise decision or done that stupid thing, then they hold a debt over the head of that younger self, a debt that cannot be repaid.... Read More
Tuesday, August 13, 2024
So for someone struggling with unwanted same-sex attraction, it may be more effective to stop the pornography and masturbation first. I know that’s a difficult feat. Here are some tips to help you get your head right, and make the work a bit easier for you:... Read More
Friday, August 09, 2024
There’s a dirty little secret in the counseling world, that they don’t want anyone to know. ... Read More
