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Different Song, Different Dance

Wednesday, August 28, 2024
“I need your help,” Steven said.  “I just don’t know how to get past this.  I try and try and try to quit looking at gay porn and masturbating, and after about two weeks, I fall flat on my face and have to go to confession again.  I don’t know what to do.”“Part of the problem is you think your unwanted same-sex attraction and your pornography addiction are one problem.  They’re not."... Read More

Resentment: An Unpayable Debt

Tuesday, August 20, 2024
This is where most people get stuck.  They blame their younger selves for the pain they suffer today, for having made that unwise decision or done that stupid thing, then they hold a debt over the head of that younger self, a debt that cannot be repaid.... Read More

The Great Escape

Tuesday, August 13, 2024
So for someone struggling with unwanted same-sex attraction, it may be more effective to stop the pornography and masturbation first.  I know that’s a difficult feat.  Here are some tips to help you get your head right, and make the work a bit easier for you:... Read More

Why doesn't counseling work?

Friday, August 09, 2024
There’s a dirty little secret in the counseling world, that they don’t want anyone to know. ... Read More

Is Masculinity Enough?

Thursday, August 08, 2024
There are many concerns for the man who struggles against unwanted same-sex attraction.  One primary concern that is often an obsession is the question, “am I masculine enough?” These men often feel like outsiders...... Read More

What you don't know about pornography and sexual addiction

Tuesday, August 06, 2024
Here's what you don't know about pornography and sexual addiction.... Read More